But why pray?

Why? Why? Why?

Anyone who has been in a car with a 4 year old, would have heard their incessant, “Why? Why? But why?” Parents try to answer within their limits of knowledge, creativity and fabrications. Some impatient or frustrated parent may just say, “Shut up!” and the child will soon learn to never ask questions. Others who have been bombarded with invented stories may in turn end up being creatively inclined as adults. Honest parents would confess that they do not know answers to all questions, and in turn may be bringing up an honest secure child. Anyway, I’m no child psychologist or behavioral scientist, just an observer. That’s beside the point. My point is that it is permissible for us as adult to ask why questions. It is to whom we ask, which is important. Our heavenly Father is never tired of our questions. To the extend to which we understand, He will answer. Lets not lose this childlike relationship with God.

The question that I was asked, by a very knowledgeable friend was, “Why pray, when God knows what we need/want?” Good question and I’m not sure what kind of cliché answer I gave her. But honest inquiry made me think and ask. I asked God. Unlike our human parents’ response, God is always keen to answer us. Now here is my answer to the question, which is abridged due to my own “hearing impairment”.

Why pray?

1) Confession – we have to come to a point of self-realization of a need before we can pray. Confession basically means, agreeing with God. I agree with God of my lack when I pray.

2) Expression – we also express our dependence on God by asking Him in prayer. “Where does my help come from, but from the Lord of heaven and earth.” It is no last resort expression; He is our only source – no choice, alternative or option.

3) Giving access – prayer I believe gives access or permission or open-door to God to intervene or be involved in our lives. With much reverence I say this, God is a gentleman. He will not force His way into our lives. He comes only when we give Him access. Jesus says, “Behold, I stand at the door and knock, if you hear my voice and open the door. I will come in…”